What’s obvious to you or me may not be obvious to all

This weekend I got into a minor verbal (textual?) scuffle on Facebook with a couple of dear friends over an issue that’s very important to me. Because the issue is so deeply part of how I view the world, I responded to a Facebook trend in haste, and offended more than a few people. I will be the first to admit that my kneejerk reaction was a mistake. However, I am not willing to admit that I’m wrong about why I reacted as I did.

There are those who say that changing your profile picture in support of a cause raises awareness, but then what? Okay, so you’re aware, now how about doing something? As Andy Scherer articulated to me, it’s even less of a meaningful gesture than wearing a rubber bracelet or sporting a bumper sticker: at least in those cases, you’ve put a couple of bucks down in support of the cause. There’s no commitment in changing your profile picture; it will last only as long as our atrophying attention spans, and does nothing of real value for the cause.

And in this case–child abuse awareness–the Facebook trend disturbs me because in effect (“show no human faces”) the psychology of it signifies that we’re turning our faces away from, or hiding our faces in shame of, a very important cause. I decline, thanks, because victims have faces, and I stand in public support of this cause. It is shameful, and we must not hide from it. Read the rest of this entry »


the power of an emergency

Haven House in Maryville Tennessee, which specializes in crisis intervention, prevention and education around domestic violence, has itself suffered a crisis in the last couple of weeks: a kitchen fire has rendered the emergency shelter nearly unusable, leaving many domestic violence victims with no place to go. Read the rest of this entry »


the power of community service

Yesterday was a significant day for me in in interesting way: I took part in a webinar for LEAPS.TV (http://leaps.tv) around the topic of domestic violence 911 call handling. We had a panel of experts from local E911, two different police forces and Haven House, a local domestic violence shelter and advocacy service.

This webinar was wildly successful from the standpoint of attendance alone, and certainly from the information being exchanged between panel members and the audience.

Being the moderator, I had my hands full juggling technical issues (inevitable in a program as complex as this one was), fielding questions and keeping the conversation fluid. Much more than this, the topic is of great personal interest to me, and it was extremely important to me that the information itself be passed around and shared so that every participant benefited, and came away with new ideas.

It worked.

The response so far has been tremendous; so much so that we’re already planning follow-up sessions.

Domestic violence is an epidemic. Over half of the calls that come into an E911 service have to do with domestic violence, and thousands upon thousands of cases occur each year. It represents among the riskiest calls a responding officer can take (remember what happened in Pittsburgh), and getting the right information, at the right time, to the right people, can literally be a matter of life and death.

In the course of working with Haven House and the members of the LEAPS.TV panel, I have learned a great deal and shared a great deal.

I firmly believe everyone–everyone–should participate in community action of some kind. My cause need not be your cause, nor yours be mine. But service to our neighbors is a giant part of how this country came to be built. Reach out. Help. Be part of your community.


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